Monday, May 24, 2010

Was it a bad idea for me to send this girl flowers?

I didn't know this girl that well. I'm 24 and she's 19. We hung out twice several months ago and she kind of acted like she liked me. I bumped into her at a party the other night. She asked me if I remembered her and I forgot who she was briefly which seemed to upset her. I remembered later. Anyway, I realized I liked her a lot that night. She is going through a tough time because her friend is in the hospital and I went ahead and ordered her some flowers (not roses) and had them delivered to her parents house where she stays yesterday afternoon. I put on the card "Smile, Kassi...from a guy who's very sorry he forgot your name." We have no way to contacting each other except through Myspace and I haven't gotten a message or anything from her, so i'm just wondering do you all think that I maybe I creeped her out?

Was it a bad idea for me to send this girl flowers?
I don't think you creep her out. She is just dealing with a lot, You probable put a smile on her face. That was sweet and thoughtful.
Reply:a little...maby u did...srry 2 say...maby u should hav put u'r name %26amp; # on them...IDK try 2 get her # %26amp; talk 2 her 1 on 1
Reply:Well, if I was in that situation that wouldn't creep me out at all. That was very nice of you, and I'm sure she enjoys the gesture. I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure you'll hear from her soon, but, like you said, she has a lot going on right now so I wouldn't expect anything to happen super fast.
Reply:no thats cute,just dont go to far if in a week she doesnt write you a message or comment you leave her a comment.%26amp; be like are you already forgetting me :(
Reply:Just a little, yet you should let her know that your there for her if she need support or anything else. Do what you can to make her happy.
Reply:No I dont think you did but in a way it is somewhat rude from her to not tell you thank you or anything but I dont think you did anything wrong
Reply:I don't know how she'll perceive it, but personally I think it was a very sweet thing to do!!
Reply:No, you did a really nice thing! Now she may know that you truly are a good person who cares. It is the thought that counts! Good luck with everything!


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